What Are the Dos and Don'ts of Being a Sugar Baby?
Nov 11, 2022 by SugarDaddyWebsiteAustralia.com
Being a sugar baby is not so difficult but if you intend to catch the big fish in the ocean of sugar daddies and be on top of your game every time, there are a few things to keep in mind.
First, know that all sugar dating relationships have specific terms for the arrangement. You have to do your research and ensure you understand what the arrangement entails. You should also be clear about your expectations and boundaries. It's also important, to be honest with your sugar daddy about your needs and wants. Be upfront about your financial situation and don't be afraid to ask for what you want. Your sugar daddy already knows why you are his sugar baby, so, avoid being cunny or cheeky. Try to understand him and what makes him get the maximum satisfaction in the relationship and once you know that, don’t hold back, or use it as a weapon to extort him. If you cheekily do that, he’ll soon find a replacement for you, and you might end up being the loser.
As a sugar baby, you must try your best to avoid giving false promises. Don't waste anyone's time or play games. And always be respectful and grateful for what your sugar daddy does for you. If you can follow these simple guidelines, you'll be on your way to a successful sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship. To have an edge as a sugar baby, we have compiled the below-proven strategies that you should follow to get all that you want in your relationship.
Invest in yourself
Many people will wonder why this is important. It is as important as it is the number one thing on this list. As said earlier, we desire that you be on top of your game, and if you desire the same for yourself as we do for you, then, take our advice. Invest in yourself. This can move you to levels you never imagined possible. Sugar daddies often want a sugar baby that can tend to them when stressed by the hustle and tussle of the business world. And there are several ways to get a man to enjoy really deep relaxation. One of them is physical intimacy, but it’s not the one that’s needed all the time. Sometimes, a sugar daddy needs mind and mental relaxation. As a sugar baby, if you take time to invest in knowledge of things to do, and words to say aside from the obvious, your sugar daddy will do everything to keep you. And keeping you means pumping more money into you. Imagine your sugar daddy had a bad day in the international trade market but you know a thing or two about the trade market, and you can calm him down and make him know that there’s room to get back in profit when the market recovers in a few days. You don’t have to know to detail things such as this, but you stimulating him mentally and getting him to relax at the same time is a plus. He’ll place a premium value on you. Invest in yourself mentally.
Also, invest in your looks. People of class such as sugar daddy wants to be in the same room with someone with the same ambiance. To look classy, you don’t have to overspend, and in looking classy, we don’t mean you have to look like the queen of England (May her gentle soul rest in peace) and don’t try to outshine anyone. There’s a way you’ll look that won’t bring all the attention to you, but when people get their gaze on you, they’ll look again. Exactly that kind.
There’s a huge difference between a slut and a sugar baby. One of the key goals why we said you should invest in yourself in every way is to separate yourself from the categories of sluts. People only use sluts for sexual pleasure. Being a sugar baby means you are having access to many things that give you a win sensation in every way. A million-dollar benefit to a fifty box an hour, that’s how much of a difference you have when you compare a sugar baby to a slut. So, move to that class by investing in yourself.
A closed-minded person will not get as much as they deserve. So, as a sugar baby, you have to have an open disposition. Be accessible. And move close to your sugar daddy. Get him to become very free and at ease anytime you’re around.
And when he also gets to open up to you, that shouldn’t create an avenue for you to disrespect him. Always show true likeness for him and maximum respect. You’ll be surprised at how close the two of you will become.
Don’t ever try to act what you’re not. That will mean you must not get found out, and we all know it is not possible. If you pretend to be something you’re not, you will always lose guard somehow and that’s the day you’ll be exposed. Always be genuine. That’s why we said earlier, that you should invest in yourself. If you know there’s a way to get closer to your sugar daddy, learn how to genuinely be it and work your way into it. But don’t pretend to be a thing you’re not. No one likes to associate with fake people.
Have the right attitude
Nothing is as exciting as a sugar baby with a positive vibe and energy and the overall right attitude. With the right attitude, your sugar daddy will love you to be around all the time and you differentiate yourself from every sugar babies around.
Set your boundaries
Do your best to make your boundary clear right from the first meeting. Everyone has boundaries for every kind of relationship. Make yours known and your sugar daddy will respect it as long as it is not a threat to whatever he is looking for in the relationship.
Keep your emotions in check
Protect yourself by keeping your emotions in check. It is possible to get carried away by your sugar daddy’s sweetness. Try to avoid this.
Keep it private
If it is private, people won’t know about it; if it remains private, people won’t be able to hurt you. Keep whatever is in between you and your sugar daddy private.
Take advantage while you can
Nothing lasts forever and always act accordingly. This will help you to take advantage of the relationship while you can. In a relationship with a sugar daddy, there are several goodies surrounding you aside from the allowances. If you can, ask questions and take advantage.
Don’t waste your sugar daddy’s time.
That’s the last thing your sugar daddy wants in a sugar baby. Don’t make him work so hard to have all of you. Give him access every time. Don’t try to waste his time. The greatest asset of successful and wealthy men is their time. Don’t waste it. Don’t change plans you’ve earlier agreed upon. He’ll cherish you.
Avoid sending any sexual exchanges on the media to a sugar daddy you don’t have a deep understanding with. If you do in the hope to lure him, you’ll end up selling yourself short.
Don’t sulk or sing your problem to his ears
Avoid adding to his miseries in any form. Whether as a scheme to have your way with something or in whatever way, don’t sing your problems or negative things happening in your life to his ears. Yes, he is there to help you as much as you are there for him, but he’s not there to take on all your problems. It’s a relationship, not a pity party. Brace yourself and comport yourself at all times.
Don’t have unrealistic expectations
Try to avoid setting expectations that are off the roof. You might admire the good things in life, but don’t expect that you’ll buy Porsche or a house from your sugar daddy in two months. This will push you to become who you are not. You have an expectation but it should be a realistic one, so you don’t become a burden to your sugar daddy.
Don't listen to the naysayers
Give no ear to naysayers. As soon as things begin to look good for you, naysayers will begin to show their ugly faces. You have to learn how to ignore and keep your thing going. If they could, they’ll definitely try to be like you.
Don’t trust completely
Humans, even bound by the agreement, can betray one another. So, don’t trust too easily. People change too often and their needs change as well. To stop yourself from unnecessary heartbreaks that result from trusting too soon, just don’t trust completely.
Don’t hesitate to call it off when your safety is at stake
It’s contractual, if anything goes against all agreements and it’s looking like your safety is at stake. Don’t retrain from quitting before it gets messy. Always prioritize your safety before anything else.
Don’t be selfish
Avoid being selfish, and always try to give your best in your sugar-dating relationship. This is what will impress your sugar daddy to shower on you those things that you need.
Don’t rush it
Don’t sound desperate or rush things. every attempt to want to quickly cash out will put you in trouble. Stay grounded and don’t rush things. Your sugar daddy might have had some bad experiences with sugar babies and he might want to put you to the test. So, avoid rushing things so he can trust you.